It’s okay for opinions to change. It’s okay to want kids and then not want them. It’s okay to not want to get married and then suddenly want to be a husband or a wife. It’s okay to disagree about homes, horror movies, how to make coffee, the definition of a film, who god is to you and who god is to me.

It’s okay to change, grow together and fall apart a little bit. Because I promise to respect you.

And here is what I know for sure. I can make you so fucking happy.

(via dirtyberd)

So fucking happy.

You don’t get it. I barely understood it. I crave the kind of partner that will tell me when I’m wrong. Someone who will take the time to say to me ‘This is going to be a sucky conversation because it’s going to be uncomfortable but if I don’t tell you, I can’t be certain anyone will and I want you to grow continuously into a superb human being.’ Do you get it? Don’t you want someone who wants you to keep growing?
Mya Wright (via dirtyberd)


Breathe. You’re going to be okay. Breathe and remember that you’ve been in this place before. You’ve been this uncomfortable and anxious and scared, and you’ve survived. Breathe and know that you can survive this too. These feelings can’t break you. They’re painful and debilitating, but you can sit with them and eventually, they will pass. Maybe not immediately, but sometime soon, they are going to fade and when they do, you’ll look back at this moment and laugh for having doubted your resilience. I know it feels unbearable right now, but keep breathing, again and again. This will pass. I promise it will pass.
Daniell Koepke   (via obriens)